Know that success does not have a definite form. We are all unique with our own special talents, concerns, and challenges, and our views of success are one-of-a-kind. Neither I nor anyone else can say what success will look like for you. Whatever you are individually striving for, you will eventually need that motivational boost to continue onward. Here are ten of my favorite quotes for developing a success mindset.
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Plans are not always going to go the way we want them to. Many will see these interferences as signs to just give up. That’s not the case. Many times, there are going to be various challenges to arise and different routes for us to have to take. If it feels like your progress is constantly hitting setbacks, know that it is normal, albeit extremely frustrating. Just search for the detour route and keep moving forward!
Our minds are powerful tools. Everything we have today began with an idea and the strong faith that it could be done! Whenever we start listening to friends, family, and complete strangers talk about why our ideas won’t work, it becomes so easy to become discouraged by their negative words. We cannot allow others’ expectations to determine our goals! Check out our vlog for more about developing a success mindset concerning our goals versus others’ expectations.
Say it with me: We’re going to make mistakes! No one has gotten to where they are now without their own challenges, and neither will you! Every mistake that you make is a learning opportunity for something greater. Developing a success mindset will keep this lesson front and center!
In our blog, “Work for your Passion, Not Just for a Paycheck,” I explained how I had a social anxiety MELTDOWN due to a Promoter position I picked up to help cover bills. Still, to this day, I vow to never again do hard-sales like THAT again, but I still learned how to organize a sales-pitch.
Thanks to that learning opportunity, despite the embarrassing outcomes and concerned bystanders, I got into self-studying content marketing which combines my storytelling skills with advertising without having to be pushy about it!
Everybody, and I mean EVERYBODY, are going to have their own opinions as to what you should do with your life or how to accomplish your goals, or in some cases why you should just quit. Know that many of these words will be said to “protect you”, some will be aimed to harm you, others will have good intentions to try to help you, but only you can determine what’s right for you! Will you always make the right decision? Nope.
Yeah, it may feel like a setback…more like a couple of miles back…but that experience will be priceless later own. Hear out others’ advice, but make the decision for yourself because no matter what you choose, there is always going to be someone to get an attitude about it. Sorry, but it can’t be avoided (even if you choose to do nothing, someone will still complain).
Have you ever heard the saying that “knowledge is power”? Well, this is only partially true. The more accurate saying would be that knowledge is potential power. So, what does this mean exactly? Have you ever taken a course in high school, college, or online, then nearly forgot most of the information after a few months from not actively using what you learned? It becomes as if we never gained the knowledge in the first place.
If we wish to learn a new skill or pursue a new opportunity, it’s not enough to just watch tutorials and read books on how to do it. We have to actually do it! I know. We need to have the experience to do what we want to do. Let me ask you this, though: how do we obtain the experience that we need to obtain our goals? That’s right…by doing it (even if we suck at it at first)!
This means that we subconsciously refuse to do something out of fear of mistakes or the fear that we are not experienced enough to actually succeed. Check out our vlog as we discuss more in-depth how Analysis Paralysis can be one of the biggest self-made roadblocks toward our goals.
Seriously, what’s the point of pursuing something that makes us miserable? I’ve heard of many people going to college to study something because it’s “high in demand” or because “it pays well.” Okay, but do you actually LIKE it? Do you wake up looking forward to going to work, or do you feel miserable or hopeless every time your alarm clock goes off?
If the only things we look forward to at our job are our bi-weekly paychecks and retirement, we’re most likely are not going to feel successful anytime soon or even a few years down the road. Money may enable you to do things that make you happy, but it cannot buy you happiness.
If you’re having to spend every last penny just to squeeze out any drops of joy that you can find outside of your working hours, then it’s not worth it. Period. What is it that you genuinely enjoy doing? Why not pursue that? If the answer is “because it doesn’t pay enough” then look harder at the opportunities surrounding your interests. You’d be surprised how much people can make when they’re able to put their heart into their work.
Fun is not just for kids! Did you know that it is possible to get paid for things you genuinely have fun doing? Crazy, right!? Just to drive this point, check out this Fox Sports article on “The Top 10 Highest-Earning Gamers in the World.” Yes, you read that title correctly. These numbers are for individuals who get paid for playing their favorite videogames!
Maybe videogames aren’t your thing, but you are passionate about teaching Physics! What can you do to make those courses even more engaging or entertaining? Could you create an online beginners’ course to help others understand the fundamental basics of the subject? Maybe you have always had a love for building or fixing things!
This next realization might either be the door opening to angelic hymns or the release of some tight chains for someone: you don’t have to stick with what you earned your degree in if you don’t care about the topic anymore!
I had a professor that was passionate about directing animations and TV shows! He had an eye for appealing composition and great storytelling! One day, while I was debating if I made the right decision in pursuing the Animation degree, I asked what it was that he majored in, and this man said Economics! ECO-freakin’-NOMICS!! His dad wanted him to work in Wall Street, but he decided to be a Director AFTER he realized that Economics was too boring for him! And no, he didn’t go back to school to study how to direct! He networked with the right people that soon offered him opportunities in the field he desired! If you are no longer passionate about what you went to school for, it’s not the end of the world for you! You can still do something else! Go for it!
First, let me say that I did my best to find the exact wording of this quote. There are various phrasings but the message remains the same.
Both a positive mind and a negative mind are powerful weapons. They just have opposite effects. It doesn’t matter how many people have faith in you. If you refuse to have faith in yourself, you won’t get far. What if you don’t have a college degree in the field you prefer? There are affordable online resources to self-teach yourself. What if you don’t have the work experience? Attend workshops that relate to your interests and place that on your resume.
If as toddlers we can figure out how to walk, talk, and climb places that would give our mothers near panic-attacks, we can accomplish so much more as adults! We just have to use our minds, release that unconditional childlike confidence, and stop listening to the nay-sayers!
Both individuals were consistently accredited to this quote! Dang it, I’m putting both! Research can be a pain in the buttocks!
Never compromise your integrity for the sake of false accomplishment. We all will have different beliefs and different passions. You have to determine for yourself what yours will be. If you climb up a ladder full of things that contradict who you are, you will never be happy. Focus on what makes you smile and enjoy life. Focus on developing the best version of you that you can muster. When you can look back at the things you’ve done and feel proud of yourself, you’ll know that you’re on the right path.
Are you pursuing your goals for yourself or for someone else? Can you honestly say that you are passionate about the things you associate yourself with? Look, it’s okay if we’re not 100% sure what we want to do with our lives; I mean, look at all the possibilities to choose from! If you are not happy with where you are now, what’s stopping you from exploring other options? For developing a success mindset, it’s important to be honest about how happy you are with your life right now.
You don’t have to suddenly quit your current job (unless it’s causing health issues, then please find something different ASAP). I do advise taking a close look at where your career choice is going for you. Take a moment to analyze what is it that you can honestly say would make you happy to do almost every day. If what you do now provides that, you’re on your way to a positive future!
If you are searching for books on developing a success mindset, one of my reading recommendations for this blog is Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Success, Think Like a Success. If anyone needs more proof that success is preceded by some outrageous challenges, serious tests of will power, and some snarky haters, this book is filled with laughter as Steve Harvey shares his many downfalls before getting to where he is now.
Developing a success mindset can be a challenge! Have you ever had an AMAZING idea just to have others bombard you with reasons why it wouldn’t work? Did you take their word as truth, or did you still push forward with your idea? Also, if you had the opportunity to create your dream job, what would it be? Please share your thoughts and your stories in the comments below!
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Take care,
Kyndall Bennett from Kyrabe Stories
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